September 21, 2008

Wind swept

Dang it! I was trying to post often and them life got in the way.

A has been talking about getting out of the military. It would be a big life change for he both of us, but we could make it happen. I have been really worried about our relationship lately and we are both talking more calmly about separating as a possibility. Things like the fact that neither of us want to take the kids from each other and foster healthy relationships for the two of them with each of us. Both of us want to be close to the kids. We both think that it is important for each of us to get our educations. Without a proper education, how are either of us supposed to support the kids in the long run? We both don't want to restrict where each other lives, but luckily, both of us have the same ideas for future living places. I know, it isn't that ideal, and things won't work out perfect, but it is nice to have these open conversations with one another.

I am now a VP of a student organization and a member of a couple more professional organizations. I will begin getting my resume together in the next few days. Today, though, is cleaning day. Tonight, I have a leadership training and some homework to get done. I am getting my shit back together this week.

1 comments:

Tarot said...

Just keep moving forward... the rest will work itself out *hug*